During a conversation with a music minister friend, we both agreed that we can listen to a very brief segment of a song and quickly realize its potential or effectiveness. It doesn't take long to know the feel of the song through rhythm, lyrics, dynamics and other factors. As a vocalist, instrumentalist, director and composer, I find learning a new song is much like meeting a new person. A first impression goes a very long way.
It happens daily to many of us. Whether listening to radio, internet or other sources, we hear a song and immediately decide to continue listening or pursue other options. It doesn't take long to determine our preference.
I began thinking. If we are that decisive about music, I wonder if we are as aware of our influence in others' lives...and others' influence in ours. It doesn't take long to acknowledge whether an individual is someone with whom we can relate, connect or share our lives. We notice their attitude, actions, approach...and even appearance. What makes or breaks a first impression?
Of course, there are factors to consider such as respect or disrespect, interest or disinterest, connection or disconnection, manners or lack of manners. There is one trait that truly impresses me. I sincerely hope that it is a trait I will learn to exhibit more each day, as well.
I am very impressed with gentleness. When someone promotes gentleness, it speaks volumes about their life in general. Gentleness represents honor, delicacy, mildness, tenderness and nobleness. I also notice respect, consideration, selflessness, kindness and patience in such a person. Gentleness doesn't push people away. It promotes comfort, peace and value toward another's life. What a difference it would make if we shared more gentleness in this world.
Gentleness is mentioned in very obviously in Scripture. Philippians 4: 5 says: "Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near."
Not to a few. Not to some. Not to those we like more than others. All. We are told to let our gentleness be evident to all...everyone...everywhere! In the checkout. Rush hour traffic. Families. Friends. Strangers. Annoying people. Gentleness. To all. It is important that the following sentence mentions that the Lord is near! He is with us. He sees. He hears. He knows. He cares. He loves. He is to be honored by our words and deeds. Gentleness...to all...is very important to Him! May we speak...gentleness. May we share...gentleness. May we live...gentleness. May our first impression reflect Him...the One Who loves us...with amazing, precious gentleness.♥~thl
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