Growing up in the South, I heard many expressions (aka "southernisms") which shared great truth. As a child, I didn't understand one in particular. However, it certainly became more clear as I grew older. Decades later and now a middle-aged adult, I believe we could still learn from it. It simply said "You catch a lot more flies with honey than vinegar." In other words, you will deal with people, and life, more effectively with kindness instead of rudeness.
Oh, how I wish we would grasp that truth more. As a child, manners were encouraged at home, Church and school. On the job, it was always professional and courteous...to use proper manners with customers and co-workers. As parents, we consistently taught our children to use good manners.
Unfortunately, it is much too common to witness rudeness in behavior, speech and how people treat one another publicly. Manners are often the exception instead of the routine.
I am convinced, however, that hope remains. I have had doors opened for me repeatedly. One young man, standing in line behind me, stepped up to the checkout and helped load my order back in the shopping cart. I am always pleased when others speak with "yes ma'am, no sir, thank you and please."
Manners are very important, though not just because I am a southern gal. Manners show respect, kindness and consideration. I wonder what a difference it would make in this world if we consistently honored others. What an incredible way to honor Him...Who loves us most.♥~thl
"Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves." Romans 12: 10
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