All too often, I observe many people talking yet very few listening. I find this heartbreaking and tragic. Recently, I read that the word "listen" is used in 412 Bible verses while the word "hear" is used 550 times. That seems quite significant.
If we are to care about one another as God intended, we may consider how to listen more effectively. Perhaps this very basic acrostic I have designed for the word "listen" will provide a few ideas.
L> Let the individual speak freely, without interruption or distraction
I> Inquire at appropriate times for clarification and direction.
S> Silence shows respect and sincerity as the individual shares thoughts and feelings.
T> Take time to observe what is said...as well as what is not said.
E> Encourage the person to feel safe and valued...by God...and by you.
N> Never jeopardize healthy boundaries or Christian principles for you or the individual. Be wise.
Dear God~Please help us share Your love more by listening. May our hearts, minds, ears and lives be more open to caring for others as You so genuinely care about us.<3~thl
"My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry," James 1: 19
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