"That driver..."

It was "that driver."  At the worst possible time, I followed a line of traffic being led by "one of those" drivers.  We all know the type.  They drive between fifteen and thirty miles per hour.  Brakes are used on every...single...turn.  Of course, this was a road of many...many...turns.  I was on a schedule.  I was certain that other drivers were heading to work and preferred to arrive on time.  "That driver" needed to either move faster or get off the road, according to my calculations.  I felt ashamed when the slow driver finally pulled over with a map in his hand.  He was obviously lost.  My impatience had not been kind.

I began thinking.  Although I am usually a very patient person, careless or inconsiderate drivers are one of my pet peeves.  Before I pull out a very undeserved halo, I also realize another truth.  I'm not always understanding of "lost traffic" on this journey of life, either.  Oh, I am passionate about the hearts and lives of others...most of the time.  But what about "that person" who doesn't live life responsibly?  Or the one who is harsh and hurtful?  What about the person who stabs me in the back with critical...and false...accusations?  What about that person who has the audacity to hurt someone I love?

Obviously, I am not condoning destructive and abusive behavior.  Yet I realize that before I make a false accusation of my own, I need to accept that I have experienced frequent lost moments on my own journey.  It wasn't the impatient travelers, critical backstabbers or finger-pointers that helped redirect me.  No, it was the kind, patient, loving and genuine heart that touched my heart, held my hand and proved that they cared...really cared..

I am deeply grateful that when I am lost, Someone loves me enough to hold me, heal me and help me find my way.  May I remember the One Who patiently listens and leads me as I travel this journey...even when...especially when...I encounter..."that driver.<3~thl