It has been decades since I saw him. Unfortunately, this college classmate and friend passed away suddenly yesterday before I could see him again. Randy was a kind, thoughtful and wonderful man. I heard from him a couple years ago and, as always, he was sharing words of encouragement.
Memories of him include seeing him sitting in class, on the basketball court or soccer field, or in the cafeteria...always smiling. As friends and classmates began reminiscing about him, I noticed two things. Randy was remembered for how he lived. Randy was remembered for how he loved. Whether he was serious or having fun, Randy was a gentleman. He obviously loved God and he genuinely followed Him. Randy also knew how to love others. I was always impressed that he made everyone feel wanted, welcome and loved. Wherever he was, whoever he was with and whatever he was doing, he took the time to smile, speak and show interest in others.
Although it is heartbreaking that his family lost him so unexpectedly, especially near Christmas time, I find comfort in Randy's eternity with the One he loved so dearly. In the middle of such a hectic season, Randy has reminded us to focus on who we love and what is truly important! We are not promised a tomorrow...or another breath. Life can change in a moment, just as it did for Randy and his loved ones.
As Christmas draws near, I pray that Randy's life will influence our lives. May how we live...and how we love...be remembered now and for all our remaining moments. Over thirty years have passed since I saw Randy. But I will not forget him. May our words, attitudes and actions touch other lives as brightly as Randy did. Thanks for your life of love, Randy. We'll see you soon.<3~thl
"My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." John 15: 12>13
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